Ask Amy: My Colleagues Don't Remember the Choreography

March 31, 2016

This story originally appeared in the April/May 2016 issue of

Two of my colleagues don’t take responsibility for remembering choreography. It wastes everyone’s time, and I end up reteaching them during breaks. How can I confront them? —

Not everyone is a quick study, so first take a moment to assess why your colleagues aren’t picking up choreography. Are they chattering incessantly, spacing out, watching the clock? Or are they earnestly paying attention? If they truly seem to learn at a slower pace, take a more compassionate approach. Suggest that they keep a notebook to write things down after rehearsal—this will allow them to recall steps more easily and to study on their own time. You can also offer to help them for a few minutes at the end of the day. Or, you can recommend that they ask the ballet master for a copy of the video—again, so that they can study on their own.

If your colleagues lack discipline and focus, however, you shouldn’t have to cover for them. Politely tell them that you’re unable to give up your break and that they need to be responsible for themselves. Without their crutch (you), they’ll be forced to pay closer attention during rehearsals. If they don’t, your ballet master will surely notice and they’ll have to pay the consequences. Some people have to learn the hard way.

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Pointe editor in chief and former dancer Amy Brandt at [email protected].